I dream of being a super hero. I want to be abel to regenerate. Crazy right? We all want to be more than we are, to have that something special that sets us apart from the froth of humanity.
You are more, better, different than the sea of humanity you fight so hard to deviate from. Stop trying. Be yourself, then and only then will you be able to master your powers.
Imagine Wolverine staring at Magneto in attempt to blast him with his laser vision. Ridiculous? Laser vision is not his power. It would be really foolish of him to do anything but use his claws.
You can only become a superhero when you stop selling yourself short. Ready?